Could use a little advice

[Rodan]

A lady found me online and we have set up a date. It has been awhile since I've gone out on one because of my illness. We are going to the beach on a day date. I would like some ideas on how to talk to her. I have not met her yet beyond texting and E-Mailing her but have tried to be a little romantic. I'm probably one of the shiest guys in the world.

[Zurke]

Hi Rodan. If you take my advice it may be your last date . Instead, try my wifes advice who says to be yourself and be attentive. Listen to what she talks about and ask questions. She says to save the farting and picking of the nose till much later on .

I guess women must like to feel the center of attention. It sounds like good advice.

[bob196045]

Farting is second date stuff, got to get them used to your smell as quickly as possible :lmao:

I have to agree with Zurke's Wife, women do enjoy being listened too

Have fun my northern friend, just be you


Enjoy
Bob

[Razorwing]

Tricky question, and one that's hard to give advice to someone else about. But speaking personally I would recommend alcohol. If one is nervous or doesn't know what to say then alcohol fixes that in a jiff. So if that's a viable option then how to make it socially acceptable for a date? Hmm... maybe a picnic with, you know, fried chicken, sandwiches, good cheese, strawberries - and a bottle of wine?

[Rodan]

Actually it was a simple date with a bottle of Smirnoffs which she really enjoyed. All of your advice paid off. I had a wonderful time with her even though right now I am sunburned except for the spot she placed sunscreen on. Oh well, for the pain I'm experiencing now it really was worth it.