Dunmer Lore and ZDawg's quest

[ZDawg]

I tried to post this in the Silgrad Lore forums, but they are apparently restricted to certin users. So, here it goes!

I am wondering about Dunmer traditions in general, along with a few specific facets of Dunmer culture.

Firstly: Marriage traditions. More specifically, when a Dunmer man and woman are married, does the woman take on the man's name, does the man take on the woman's name, or do their last names remain entirely independent?

Secondly: Is it possible that a Dunmer from a Redoran family could be good friends with a Dunmer from a Hlaalu or Telvanni family? I know that the answer is likely yes, as all men, mer and beast races retain a free will, but I just thought I'd clarify.

Thirdly: Where do each of the family branches fall in terms of economic status? I know that generally Hlaalu are the politicians, the lawmakers, the bureaucrats etc, the Redoran are the warriors, peacekeepers and craftsmen, and the Telvanni are the... well, they mainly just stick to magic.

I also would like to know the likelihood of a member of a certain family branch breaking their set traditions. For example, a Hlaalu Dunmer becoming a craftsman and living out in a rural area amongst other craftsmen. Again, I know that free will is a factor, I just wanted to know how common this might be.

Anyways, some more questions will likely crop up about the Dunmer sooner or later, so I'll post them here when they come.

Cya guys!
~Zach